Some days are great, others are not...but no matter what twists and turns I encounter, you can be sure I'm going to write about it!

Thursday, July 24, 2008


I am tall for a girl
I have big boobs and the butt to match
I am not tan
I am curvy
My skin is not always porcelain looking (if ever!)
I have a very distinctive laugh
I love to talk
I am working on being a better listener
I believe in the golden rule, but I sometimes forget to live by it
I hope to start dating soon (once I can find someone willing and able to "go on a date with me"'s really not as scary as it sounds!)
I am a mom
I love to take my son to the park
I love to hang out with adults
I love to have stimulating conversations, sometimes interpreted as debates
I can be challenging
I can be amiable
At times, I feel alone
At times, I feel loved
At times, I have anxiety about what others think of me, or how I am perceived
This is me.
Take it, or leave it :) (for my sake, hopefully you'll take it!)


  1. I'll take it! I love your laugh. It's infectious.

  2. Great list. Maybe you should also post the things you are not. "I'm not the type of woman..." In an earlier post you stated you were using eHarmony. eHarmony is a conservative Christian dating website. See this article for example: They exclude homosexuals and they advertise heavily in media used by conservative Christians. As a result, you might be striking out because conservative Christian men are turned off by the mom thing. And that should not be a turn off. It is something that you are proud of. I would suggest that you try a different dating website and writing about all things that you are not in your ad. Set yourself apart.

  3. jenn: Thanks!

    sky girl: I agree :)

    claire: Thanks, again! :)
    willikat: That made me smile!

    anonymous: I am christian, and just because the site specifically excludes gays and lesbians I would not label it as being "conservative." There are many single fathers that also participate in eharmony...I just haven't found the right person. I have looked into other dating websites, and have left extremely unimpressed. Thanks for your input.