tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7484741509687622135.comments2023-07-22T05:34:30.404-07:00Twists & TurnsStacyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12143444721796504336noreply@blogger.comBlogger757125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7484741509687622135.post-89174129912815301902012-11-01T08:56:12.874-07:002012-11-01T08:56:12.874-07:00I am glad you LOVE your neighborhood, and the new ...I am glad you LOVE your neighborhood, and the new house. <br /><br />Good luck with NaBloPoMo - I have been participating for years and plan to again this year. We can inspire each other! Check out my old posts here:<br /><br />http://amelie-mn.blogspot.com/search/label/NaBloPoMoEmily Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13765923636199127295noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7484741509687622135.post-80987413540051360572010-08-19T13:58:19.590-07:002010-08-19T13:58:19.590-07:00So so sorry. God, I really am. Good vibes...So so sorry. God, I really am. Good vibes...doahleighhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08963505135106159513noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7484741509687622135.post-25298510351051108162010-08-12T17:33:42.898-07:002010-08-12T17:33:42.898-07:00I am SO proud of you! This is so exciting!I am SO proud of you! This is so exciting!doahleighhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08963505135106159513noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7484741509687622135.post-89057907819097108072010-08-12T10:43:07.405-07:002010-08-12T10:43:07.405-07:00Great suggestion! I wonder if going that dark wou...Great suggestion! I wonder if going that dark would wash me out? hmmmmmm.....Maybe I'll wait and make an appointment for mid September - early December. Thanks Cheryl!!Stacyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12143444721796504336noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7484741509687622135.post-24786605656337132972010-08-11T06:46:20.046-07:002010-08-11T06:46:20.046-07:00Are you sure you should go back to the same place?...Are you sure you should go back to the same place? Wherever you go, go dark--chocolate brown maybe? Bangs?Cherylhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09897414542540122640noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7484741509687622135.post-84198760351987572862010-07-13T08:24:09.132-07:002010-07-13T08:24:09.132-07:00UPDATE! While my monotonous schedule is still eve...UPDATE! While my monotonous schedule is still ever present, little man and I went to the sculpture garden at the walker this past weekend. It was peaceful, free, and a fun activity during an off-day. <br /><br />plus, who wouldn't have fun looking at a giant cherry on a spoon?!Stacyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12143444721796504336noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7484741509687622135.post-42766318558277711602010-06-29T08:33:59.474-07:002010-06-29T08:33:59.474-07:00I'm a little behind here. But from what I can ...I'm a little behind here. But from what I can tell, you ARE a good mom, and I'm glad you recognize that.doahleighhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08963505135106159513noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7484741509687622135.post-21339415414376867662010-05-28T06:25:34.963-07:002010-05-28T06:25:34.963-07:00Sky - I'm really thinking taking a secretive h...Sky - I'm really thinking taking a secretive half day at work will help out...I struggle with not having "me time" since I'm at the office 45 hours a week, and am a single mom when I'm not working. My hopes are I'll feel refreshed and ready to go if I devote a few hours one afternoon to myself...I'll let you know if it works!!<br /><br />Cheryl - Great ideas! I'll see if I can fit any of those things into my schedule!Stacyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12143444721796504336noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7484741509687622135.post-4272833043995385252010-05-27T07:23:24.582-07:002010-05-27T07:23:24.582-07:00Join a bookclub? Find some outdoor festivals or f...Join a bookclub? Find some outdoor festivals or fairs and take little man and some friends? Take a weekend day trip to Stillwater? Take an art class? I'm out of ideas.Cherylhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09897414542540122640noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7484741509687622135.post-27674952674500813302010-05-27T06:59:28.012-07:002010-05-27T06:59:28.012-07:00Monotony is the story of my life. If you figure ou...Monotony is the story of my life. If you figure out how to get out of the funk let me know!Shaunahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13866502742081896301noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7484741509687622135.post-51872459134977314822010-05-09T21:19:38.141-07:002010-05-09T21:19:38.141-07:00Happy Mother's Day. I have no doubt you'r...Happy Mother's Day. I have no doubt you're a fantastic mom...don't you forget that...and wouldn't do anything to harm your son. Anyone who is worthy of you both should consider himself lucky.Cherylhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09897414542540122640noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7484741509687622135.post-17091515660822090092010-05-08T03:21:41.216-07:002010-05-08T03:21:41.216-07:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7484741509687622135.post-91283156169795959512010-05-04T12:43:09.882-07:002010-05-04T12:43:09.882-07:00Cheryl - Great food for thought...although I'm...Cheryl - Great food for thought...although I'm extremely honest, and wouldn't mind explaining my reasons to a person I'm dating. If they feel strongly like they want to meet my son, I would find that to be great news...but I would also be cautious because I'm extremely protective of my little man.Stacyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12143444721796504336noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7484741509687622135.post-50475592835962325952010-05-04T12:40:26.944-07:002010-05-04T12:40:26.944-07:00Jeez...I sure hope so!! Here's to positive th...Jeez...I sure hope so!! Here's to positive thinking!Stacyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12143444721796504336noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7484741509687622135.post-72567907947253079282010-05-04T07:46:05.253-07:002010-05-04T07:46:05.253-07:00Maybe you'l end up eating salads all summer b/...Maybe you'l end up eating salads all summer b/c it goes so well! Yum :)Cherylhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09897414542540122640noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7484741509687622135.post-8640285932246082772010-05-04T07:44:54.660-07:002010-05-04T07:44:54.660-07:00Stacy, not introducing them to your son right away...Stacy, not introducing them to your son right away is a good way to protect your son for sure. But if I can play devil's advocate, if they are dating you and KNOW you have a son, the information is still there and that fear I mentioned can still be there. In fact, it might even fester to know there is a child there they haven't met but will some day...I'm just saying it's nerve-wracking to meet the parents, childless people might find it even scarier to meet the kid(s) especially if they don't get to meet him. Maybe they want to include him and are wondering why they can't (?). I think I might wonder that..."Why don't they want me to meet their child? If they won't introduce me, maybe it's b/c they don't want me to stick around..." I dunno, just some food for thought I guess.Cherylhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09897414542540122640noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7484741509687622135.post-45233768658232815102010-05-03T05:39:47.442-07:002010-05-03T05:39:47.442-07:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7484741509687622135.post-86216943648505246072010-04-26T11:30:42.372-07:002010-04-26T11:30:42.372-07:00Awesome comments peeps, and (running the risk of r...Awesome comments peeps, and (running the risk of repeating myself) interesting perspective.<br /><br />Perp. - don't be afraid to admit your dealmakers...an inquiring mind would love to know! (guilty!! hehe)<br /><br />Cheryl - True, however I am a firm believer in NOT introducing a person I am dating to my son until (at the VERY minimum) six months. I feel not introducing him to my son should take all pressure away from them getting to know if they're comfortable being a part of a child's life, and allow more energy for the two of us to get to know each other..until, at the very least, I am sure the man I am dating is healthy, sane, and would benefit my son's life. Does that mean I have a time limit on when to call a relationship off? Not in the least...I just don't think it would be healthy (or fair to all parties inolved) to include my son in my dating life until I am positive the man I am dating is good enough to know how amazing my big little man actually is. Perhaps that's also my "protective mama-bear instincts" at their strongest? Who knows!! :)Stacyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12143444721796504336noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7484741509687622135.post-84253646211393956902010-04-24T12:24:00.501-07:002010-04-24T12:24:00.501-07:00I think that if someone doesn't want to date a...I think that if someone doesn't want to date a person with kids, it's not about the parent or any persons (parent or child) specifically. It's about fear. Dating is scary. The person you are starting to date takes a lot o getting-to-know. And with kids, well that's more people to get to know and worry "what if they don't like me." Also there are a lot of people out there who are ambivelent about kids or having kids until they actually do. So when they are single and childless, they can't imagine having a kid around. <br /><br />I also say, people in general shouldn't limit themselves. You can end up pleasantly surprised with you you fall for...<br /><br />And you are awesome and anyone who wouldn't date you b/c of your fabulous little man is not someone you want around anyway. Really..Cherylhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09897414542540122640noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7484741509687622135.post-48740597181134528652010-04-23T15:05:59.170-07:002010-04-23T15:05:59.170-07:00Andy here. I am a single man. Been that way for li...Andy here. I am a single man. Been that way for like 25 of my 28 years, my Norm, not the one from Cheers... MOVING ON!<br /><br />Stacy you are awesome. I was watching this Michael Buble video from SNL "Haven't met you yet" very cool. He seems very happy while he is singing about not having yet met a 'special someone', but I think he might be married, so earsy fer herm ter've sed.<br /><br />Some people won't date a parent because they have been brainwashed others need things very simple, others have priorities conflicting. An open discussion of 'single parent' and dating may get people to open their minds and reconsider. <br /><br />I think there are lots of men that don't have single parent as a 'dealbreaker'. The question I ask myself: What ridiculous dealbreakers do I have? I am working on having fewer. I am realizing I have many 'dealmakers' <br />too, but scared to mention them sometimes because I like to hear them unprompted. Hopefully this paragraph applies to many people.<br /><br />"I sleep on the soil, my wealth is hidden in the matress."Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02061538991702596278noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7484741509687622135.post-18226224483198798872010-04-23T08:40:54.747-07:002010-04-23T08:40:54.747-07:00Beth -
Great comment, and an interesting perspect...Beth - <br />Great comment, and an interesting perspective. <br /><br />Kids are a big deal. I respect that...I just want people to remember that parents are people who just so happen to have a parental label.<br /><br />Thanks for sharing...<br /><br /><3 u too!<br /><br />StacyStacyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12143444721796504336noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7484741509687622135.post-82320599609919885092010-04-23T08:35:43.778-07:002010-04-23T08:35:43.778-07:00Hi, my name is Beth, and I'm a single woman wh...Hi, my name is Beth, and I'm a single woman who won't date someone with kids.<br /><br />Why won't I date someone with kids? I'm not in a place where I want kids in my life right now. No offense to dudes with kids, it's just not what I want. <br /><br />I'm trying to think of a comparison statement. Like, I have rules for who I date. I won't date anyone who does drugs, owns a gun, has a bad relationship with their family, etc. <br /><br />With the previous statement, it might seem that I'm saying kids are bad. This isn't what I'm saying at all. I'm saying that having a child is part of the parent's personality and part (most) of their priority. Kids are a big, if not the biggest, part of the parent's life. <br /><br />I agree with you, Stacy, in that someone who has a child isn't boring or expecting me to be a parent. Or have scales. :)<br /><br />There are guys out there who not only are OPEN to dating someone with a child, but SEEK it out! THEY EXIST.<br /><br />Obviously I'm not a parent. I may be one day, but not now. So, I don't know what it's like to be in your shoes.<br /><br />Also, your kid is amazing. :)<br /><br />Having a child does NOT make you un-dateable, but it may limit your dating pool. But there are a lot of things that limit someone's dating pool. <br /><br />Like, there may be guys out there who won't date a woman who owns a house, because they are intimidated by success. So, I'm not going to date those guys and it's not a big deal. Guys might not want to date me because I have red hair, or because I drive a Taurus, or whatever. I don't care what the reason is, if they don't want to date me, I don't want to date them.<br /><br />I would be more interested to hear from single guys on this topic.<br /><br />THERE ARE GUYS OUT THERE WHO ARE RIGHT FOR YOU, STACY. Just be patient. :)<br /><br />♥ u,<br /><br />BethBethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01906494455768273243noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7484741509687622135.post-72059321154281813542010-04-20T23:03:37.153-07:002010-04-20T23:03:37.153-07:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7484741509687622135.post-69972276144917392162010-04-20T23:03:37.152-07:002010-04-20T23:03:37.152-07:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7484741509687622135.post-56202511536753690392010-04-16T11:49:23.068-07:002010-04-16T11:49:23.068-07:00When I was 18, my friend and I were driving with m...When I was 18, my friend and I were driving with my 80-something grandmother, blew out a tire and stood by the side I-35 waving down traffice but no one stopped...finally someone did and let us sit in his air conditioned car for more than an hour while we waited for AAA. All he said was, he'd want someone to stop if it were his wife and daughters...Cherylhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09897414542540122640noreply@blogger.com